The issue goes like this: You ask someone where you should eat visiting a city. You never get a straight answer. You get all over the place wondering, maybe this, maybe that, if you like this food this, if you like that food that. Everyone hedges, no one just shares.
So to make things easier I reframed the question:
Pretend I’m flying in at 7AM and flying out of town at 11:55PM. I need to eat breakfast, lunch, dinner. Maybe grab a snack or get coffee. Where do I go?
And the result? I’ve gotten better answers.
This is me capturing those answers.